Wouldn't it be nice to wake up every day to having life be this perfect setup, with no worries at all, no balancing, organizing, processing, analyzing, or managing emotions, especially theirs? Some days are in fact like that, but you didn't get to live that kind of day, or hour, or minute, without having worked at it. You're always balancing.
Marriage requires attentiveness, consideration, thoughtfulness, cooperation, and a lot of communication and balancing; it's give and take, and often, it's more give than take, and that's ok as long as the balance doesn't feel like it's in disequilibrium. When it does, it's time for....
Communication. Talking. Sharing. Hard conversations. Feelings. Wants. Desires. Boundaries. Even the best recipes had repeated tweaks and changes. A successful marriage isn't static. You have to stay fluid with the flow, even when, especially when, that flow is disrupted with waves, peaks, and valleys. Often, it's a reset that's needed, or a revisiting to what's important, and sifting through what's really not. We all get mired down in life, and we get comfortable with the uncomfortable, but you don't deserve that. No one does. Both of you can be living emotionally wealthy and healthy lives, and I am here to help.
Sometimes however, two people are better off together, apart, and you may be thinking of separation or divorce. This is not to be taken lightly, and often, when an individual or couple sits down with an impartial, non-judgemental Professional like myself, they're able to work through their differences. When you work with me, your decisions are always respected, and through our working together, it is my role to help you navigate what you decide is best for you.
Whatever direction that takes, I am there for you, to support you. We can also work on things like how to communicate with your ex-spouse, how to log, what to say and not say, how to word letters and have conversations, and how to co-parent. I do not do any legal work or legal representation, and I am not involved with the courts in any way. I am here as your emotional well-being support and your guide as to how best to communicate, manage, and balance the myriad of emotions through this difficult time.
I am here for you.